A Love Letter to Senior Moms
As Chase wraps up her freshman year of college—which is just wild to say out loud—I can’t help but think of all the senior moms out there as graduation season approaches. I vividly remember being in your shoes…feeling all the things. Pride. Excitement. Sadness. Anxiety. The overwhelming mix that comes with watching your firstborn close one chapter and step boldly into the next.
Moms, let me tell you something—something I was told but didn’t fully believe until I lived it:
Having adult children is SO. MUCH. FUN.
This season of life with Chase has been incredibly rewarding. Watching her soar, discover her independence, find new friendships, and navigate new opportunities—it’s been nothing short of amazing. She calls me nearly every morning during her walk to class, and man, those little daily moments are simply the most wonderful. Truly, the best is yet to come.
I said this last year, and I’ll say it again: the buildup to drop-off day is actually harder than the day itself.
You cry. You plan. You stress. And then suddenly…they’re moved in. They’re ready. And deep down, you realize—you’ve done your job. You’ve given them wings.
And here’s the good news: they still need you.
It may look a little different now, but they still call for advice, still need encouragement, and yes, sometimes they’ll say, “I’m homesick, can you come get me?” And you’ll go if you can, because you’re still their safe place.
Chase has had a phenomenal first year. She crushed her academics, joined a sorority she absolutely loves, landed a fashion workshop, and made memories that will last her a lifetime. I am endlessly proud of her—but mostly, I just can’t wait to have her home in two weeks!
So, to all the senior moms out there—I see you. I feel you. You’re going to be A-OK. It’s different, yes. But it’s also deeply fulfilling in ways you can’t yet imagine……fulfilling and F U N…..I mean don’t get me started on tailgates and Mom’s weekend ; )
One of the things that gave me peace of mind when we dropped Chase off was knowing she had everything she needed. Full transparency—she’s only an hour away, which definitely helped—but I truly believe that having her space set up and feeling “complete” made our goodbye so much easier.
Here’s one of my biggest tips: Write your goodbye letter before move-in day.
Get your emotions out on paper so you can give that hug, smile (even if it’s through tears), and walk away with grace. I didn’t want to fall apart in front of her, and having that letter—filled with encouragement and maybe a few favorite gift cards (Sephora, DoorDash, Starbucks, you get it)—helped soften the blow for both of us.
Sending you all the hugs, strength, and solidarity. You’re doing great.
You’ve got this, MOM.
Y’all can take it from here and list out the dorm room essentials
Blush Bouclé Pouf Chic and functional, this cozy pouf works as a footrest, extra seating, or a decorative accent.
Scalloped Woven Storage Basket The prettiest way to hide your stuff — great for laundry, blankets, or odds and ends.
Textured Blue Rug Soft and neutral with just enough personality — makes a dorm feel more like home.
Style-Inspired Coffee Table Books Cute with a subtle side of educational — stack these for instant decor that doubles as design inspo.
Acrylic Display Tower Clear and compact, this shelf is perfect for storing makeup, perfumes, snacks, or small decor without crowding your space.
Blue-Striped Throw Pillows A fresh layer for your twin XL setup — cozy, coastal, and easy to mix and match.
DORM ROOM ESSENTIALS
Under-Bed Storage Bag Great for maximizing MOVE IN DAY….don’t skip these my friends….also work in a small dorm space — stash off-season clothes or extra bedding under the bed and out of sight.
Mini Tool Kit You’ll thank yourself later. This compact set is perfect for quick fixes and dorm DIYs.
Cube Shelf Organizer Dorm essential 101. Use it for books, bins, or styling with cute decor. Fits most standard storage cubes.
Cozy Knit Blanket Soft, snuggly, and just the right weight — for chilly nights or Netflix marathons.
Gold Vanity Tray A glam touch for your desk or dresser — corral perfumes, jewelry, or skincare in style.
Glass Storage Jar with Wood LidStylish and functional — perfect for snacks, cotton pads, or whatever needs a cute container.
DORM ROOM ESSENTIALS
Folding Step Ladder Dorm shelves are no joke. This compact, foldable ladder helps you reach high spaces with ease (and style).
Rolling Laundry Hamper Lightweight, holds a ton, and rolls right to the laundry room — plus, the blush color is cute enough to keep out.
Swivel Desk Chair Comfortable and compact, this plush chair makes long study sessions way more bearable.
Black & White Glam Print Dorm art that makes a statement — bring personality and a little sparkle to your walls.
Hootie Personal Safety Alarm An essential for peace of mind. This sleek safety device clips onto your keys or bag for instant sound if needed.
DORM ROOM ESSENTIALS
Guest Check Wall Art Print A playful, vintage-inspired print that adds personality and a little edge to dorm walls.
White Ruffled Bed Skirt Perfect for hiding under-bed storage in a polished way — adds softness and style to any twin XL setup.
Light-Up Vanity Mirror Dorm lighting isn’t great. This mirror brings glam vibes and perfect lighting for skincare, makeup, or late-night get-ready sessions.
DORM ROOM ESSENTIALS
Tall White Drawer Unit Smart storage with a small footprint — ideal for clothes, tech, or beauty items when closet space is limited.
Textured Green Comforter Set Adds color and cozy texture to a dorm bed while keeping things calm and stylish.
Printed Sheet Set Soft, playful, and dorm-bed approved — these patterned sheets give personality to twin XL basics.
DORM ROOM ESSENTIALS
Can’t wait to watch you tackle sophomore year like a champ, Chasers—-but ‘til then….hurry home—-WE MISS YOU!
